Today on my blog I have a very special guest – my
fellow Crooked Cat author: the fun, fabulous and bewitchingly fascinating Ailsa Abraham.
Welcome, Ailsa.
I’ve been fascinated by your intriguing postings about religion – and
I’ve noticed that your beliefs appear to be very diverse. Please tell me – how do you reconcile
them?
Thanks for asking, Sue. I
know that my mentioning of various belief systems confuses many people, and I'm
asked, “Well what exactly ARE you?” The answer is simple. I'm a spiritual being
who has come to the conclusion that it is all one and only the ways of
expressing it, rituals and forms of words change. The trappings are not
important, it is what is in your heart and the way you treat other people that
matter.
That may sound radical but
my Quaker friends agree. They don't use the word “God,” they say “Spirit” –
which fits in perfectly with my Shamanistic training.
It's probably that I was
exposed to most of the world's major religions at an early age. My father was
Jewish, but played the organ at the local Anglican church because he was the
only organist they had. Mother had been brought up Presbyterian, nearly
converted to Catholicism but settled on “All purpose Protestant” after marrying
my father.
So from early years I was
just as at home in a synagogue as I was in a church. Then came my life
surrounded by Muslims. Because my late aunt worked in the Sudan, we had very
close connections with her students who were sent to the UK to study in British
hospitals. I played with the other little girls and learned that in their house
I put on a tirha to cover my head and we ate with our right hands only (by dint
of being made to sit on my left hand to avoid mistakes).
Coming into adulthood, I was
drawn to the pagan path. I studied Wicca up to High Priestess level, but
shortly after my ordination I had to leave and so was without a coven. That was
when I took up Shamanism, which respects the spirit of all things.
I believe very sincerely
that there is a Spirit of the Universe, but the human mind is incapable of
taking in the immensity of it, so man makes God in his own image. That's fine.
The Green Lady of the pagans is the Blue and White Lady of the Catholics, Quan
Yin of the Buddhists and just an expression of the feminine side of the infinite.
Quan Yin
I was only co-opted into the
Catholic community because I live in a nominally Roman Catholic country and I'm
a healer. People in the village came to me for healing, but were uncomfortable
thinking it was some form of sorcery. They wanted to believe that my healing
gifts were from their God, or (more precisely) from the Virgin Mary. Fine, no
problem, I'll connect with her as well as any other. Keeping other people happy
and doing “When in Rome” is a way of life for me. Particularly “when in a
Roman's house...do what is expected of you.”
I totally respect anyone's
faith or absence of one. I don't force anything I feel to be true on anyone
else, and I appreciate it if they do the same to me. I will join in with
whatever festivals, celebrations or customs are expected with a few exceptions.
When the local corner shop was run by a charming Hindu couple, I made a point
of paying homage with a Namaste to their shrine to Shiva and Lakshmi. On buses
in Malta where there were religious tableaux above the driver, I crossed myself
as I saw others doing. I may not have spoken the language, but I got my arm
patted by a few old dears for knowing how to behave.
It comes down to respecting
Spirit, in whatever form, whether it is a tree, flower, statue,touching a
mezuzza, lighting incense... it really isn't important. Respect is important.
Not upsetting people is important.
One final thought – as one
who has been on the pagan path, Roman Catholicism is very easy to switch over
to. It is very feminine-centred, and their Mary looks awfully like the Goddess
she replaced all those centuries ago. I say good morning to the Lady on the
Hill every day, because I think She understands that it doesn't matter what
colour she is wearing, we know what we are both on about.
If this upsets anyone, I'm
truly sorry. But that is probably
because you think you have the One True Answer...and I don't believe that
anyone has that. Not me for sure!
What a fascinating and
thought-provoking post, Ailsa. Thank
you very much for sharing it!
Absolutely, a fascinating and respectful post - thanks for sharing ladies! xxx
ReplyDeleteI found Ailsa's views very interesting, although I figure our God lives inside us. When we pray or ask the angels for help, could we be revving our sub-conscious up into action? Who knows, but so long as it works for me, I'll keep doing it. She has clearly thought deeply and feels passionately about the subject. Thanks for your honesty, Ailsa, it made for a fascinating interview.
ReplyDeleteThanks Ailsa..one of the things I like about you in particular is that we can talk about spiritual matters without either having a pre-conceived and media-induced hissy fit about what the other believes. I am a tad fed up of having to ''justify'' my Messianic Judaism to people by always denying I hate gays and am anti-abortion! *sigh*Great explanation of your beliefs! Thanks for sharing it.
ReplyDeleteA reply from Ailsa (via Facebook):
ReplyDeleteThanks to everyone who commented on Sue's blog - unfortunately Blogger won't allow me to reply; I have this problem with the embedded reply form on Blogger all the time. I thank you all. I find that being able to discuss encourages mutual understanding and tolerance. That can only be to the good for all of us. Ignorance breeds mistrust and we can all see where that is going.
Wonderful post.
ReplyDeleteLovely post. ;-)
ReplyDeleteThank you, it's good to know there are those as yourself in the world. :)
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